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What is the relationship between being in the box and self deception. Last week, while reflecting on issues of leadership character and humility, i found not one, but two copies on my bookshelf of leadership and self deception. We deceive ourselves into thinking were doing the right thing for the right reason, but people wont follow a leader whose motives are selfish. Jan 07, 2009 leadership and selfdeceptiongetting out of the box by the arbinger institute my big take aways in just a few words. It is seldom that i push a book on others, but this one is an exception.
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I think it expands upon how being in the box causes a continuous circle of failure and causes long term issues. Leadership and selfdeception air force digital media. What selfjustifying images might these people havewhat boxes might they have been. I think leadership and self deception is an enormously powerful book because it forces us to look for solutions that are within our personal control rather than simply blame our problems on others. In leadership and selfdeception, our story is written in firstperson, accounting the tales of a successful executive who has newly joined zagrum company and asked to meet with the executive committee. Getting out of the box by the arbinger institute isbn. Leadership and selfdeception by the arbinger institute is a business fable that illustrates the ways that selfdeception can undermine interpersonal relationships and productivity. It begins with a new productline lead employee, tom callum, at the fictional zagrum company.